One of the laws of physics I learned in high school was the Second Law of Thermodynamics.
Officially, it says, “The level of disorder in the universe is steadily increasing. Systems tend to move from ordered behavior to more random behavior.“
In simpler terms, it says this: Left on their own, systems tend toward disorder.
That’s why a cup of coffee left on the counter cools over time, not the other way around. It’s why sandcastles crumble, buildings decay, and 52 playing cards thrown on the floor don’t become a stacked deck on their own. Everything, in the absence of outside energy, moves from order to chaos.
This law is always at work—in nature, in science—and in our homes and lives.
I was thinking about this fact recently as I finished writing the manuscript of my next book. The words were typed on my computer, of course. But over the months of researching and writing, I collected a large number of notes and pieces of paper—loose sheets of handwritten outlines, printed pages to edit, notecards, lists, folders of relevant projects, even a stack of books I referenced often. Over time, I placed more and more of them on a shelf near my desk.
As the writing continued, the pile slowly grew. One stack turned into two, and two stacks turned into three. Piles of notecards got higher and higher. Papers intermingled. Things got buried. The mess expanded, more and more, until eventually the entire shelf was overtaken with notes for the book.
The mess didn’t improve with time—it only worsened. The system tended toward disorder, not order. And it stayed that way, until just last week, when the book was completed and I finally took the time and effort to clean it up fully.
Because here’s the thing about messes: They don’t clean themselves. They require attention.
When my kids were younger, Kim and I had a mantra that we would use often. Especially after meals or light snacks in the evening, if someone left their plate on the counter near the sink, I’d say, “You know that plate’s not going to clean itself. Somebody in this family is going to have to do it. It might as well be you since you’re the one who dirtied it.”
I wish I could say the mantra was 100% effective—but we all know better than that.
Regardless, there is an important truth hidden in that reality that we would be wise to remind ourselves of—even beyond our teenage years.
Messes don’t clean themselves. The universe moves naturally toward disorder, not order.
This is important to see and apply accordingly in our homes. Messes only grow as clutter attracts more and more clutter.
- The mail you left on the counter will only pile up higher—until you make the effort to sort it.
- The dishes in your sink will remain dirty—until you make the effort to clean them.
- The clothes in your closet will take up more and more space—until you make the effort to discard some.
- The boxes of stuff in your basement will remain there—until you take the time to sort them.
- The garage will remain too full to park in—until you get out there and declutter the stuff.
And maybe, some of us need to stop reading right here, and go make the change to bring about the order in our home that we’ve been wanting.
But this principle doesn’t stop at our possessions. Messes don’t clean themselves. The universe only moves toward order when energy is applied:
If we’re living paycheck to paycheck, avoiding the numbers won’t change the math. Our attention and energy is required to fix it.
If our lifestyle is unhealthy, doing the same thing over and over won’t bring change. Our attention and energy is required to change it.
If we don’t like the direction of our life, attention and energy will be required to start moving in a different direction.
If there is a strained relationship in our life, ignoring the hard work won’t solve it. Attention, energy—and probably humility—will be required.
We can spend a lot of time waiting for the right moment, the perfect motivation, or the ideal set of circumstances. But messes rarely resolve themselves as we wait. They grow. And the longer we delay, the more energy it takes to clean them up.
So maybe today is a good day to ask: What mess in my life is waiting for my attention?
And what small step can I take before the sun sets to begin cleaning it up?
